It's been 7 years....
84 months....
365 weeks....
2,557 days....
61,381 hours....
3,682,884 minutes....
220,973,107 seconds and counting
Since I should have met you. You are still a part of me even though you never got the chance to live you live on through me in my head I imagine what you would have been like what you would have done in your life what you would have liked would you be sitting here watching the #Superbowl with me? Would you be a #Geek like me? What would your style be? What would your favorite subject in school be?
These along with many other questions and wonders haunt me every single day I often wonder if the universe saw the wrong that happened and said no we can't have this... this child was meant to be born this child needs to be born and you came back to me a year later when you? Or maybe it was your sibling Freyja was born I don't know but I like to think you were meant to be my child and you found your way back to me Freyja may have been my first born but you, my child, was my first conceived and I remember the day vividly your mother and I went out and bought a dozen different pregnancy test and used every single one we were in disbelief shock even because I was never supposed to be blessed with a child due to childhood medical procedures that I was told would render me sterile so I felt truly blessed to actually become a father and your mother was thrilled too naturally we were both scared and terrified but we accepted it and we started planning for our new family but despite the joy and happiness this brought it ended up in a terrible tragic nightmare that lives on to this very day. I don't know if it haunts your mother as much as it does me but I know I wish things would have been different I wish you got to breathe I wish you got to play I wish you weren't killed.
#FathersNeedRightsToo #MensRights #FathersRights #Fathers #EqualRights #HumanRights #AntiAbortion #ProLife #ProChoice #Abortion #Miscarriage #ItWasALie #NoNeedToLie #TakeResponsibilityForYourActions
Now, I want to say something I respect everyone's beliefs, principals, values and opinions and I should hope that I'd get the same respect back.
My opinions, thoughts, feelings, beliefs, values, and principals don't fit in a single box I'm all over the place and that's not always popular I don't hide my past or my core values but I'm not out there advertising it all the time either I had a traumatic event happen to me and it changed me and every year on this date what would have been the birth of my first conceived child I remember her/him. It's therapeutic to me to remember and to talk about it I started an international conversation not for fame, not for glory and definitely not to hurt harm disparage anyone I did it for the same reason I do every single thing because it needed to be done.
I'm #passionate and #outspoken on topics that concern me or #humanity in general I'm a #Democrat I'm a #Republican I'm #Religious I'm #Spiritual I'm #Progressive I'm #Political I'm all about fighting for #socialjustice within a logical and reasonable/rational mindset and again that's not always popular. #DontPutMeInABox #ImEverything
Do I believe all human beings deserve to choose what happens or doesn't happen to their body yes! So in that sense, I am Pro-Choice but that includes ALL #HumanBeings including the #Unborn who is going to speak for those unable to speak for or defend themselves? Someone has to!
Life is Life you don't get to play god and decide who lives and who dies!
Now if it's a mutual decision between the father and the mother that's on them that's their decision I don't support that but I respect their opinion.
But don't take that decision away from the father we are 50% of the equation we are the reason you are pregnant we should have a say in the well being of our child just as much as women do yes it's your body but inside your body is another body another human being another life and that body that life needs to be protected as well. I don't care what you do or don't do with your body I'm concerned about the body inside of your body.
You can do anything you want to prevent life that's your decision that's your choice I support the use of contraceptives but once you conceive once you create life your decision your choice ends take responsibility for your actions UNLESS it is the result of rape, incest or it will inevitably end your life that is the only reason for abortion!
Abortion should not be used as birth control.
That is my thoughts and opinions on the matter.
This is me! I'm not ashamed! I'm proud of my service to the Father's Rights movement I hope for equal rights for everyone, not just women.
Our society is hypocritical on the subject they claim to want equal rights but they really don't Father's are treated like second-class citizens and it's time we change this it's 2018 it's time we respect everyone.
With all that said if you have a problem with what I said if you don't like what I said that's ok you don't have to like it but respect me as a human being for having the guts and courage to speak out on something that is critical in our society.
I respect your thoughts and opinions please respect mine. We can agree to disagree on any topic and still be friends I enjoy a good debate on any stance I take on any matter and if you can't deal with that then I feel sorry for you because I'm still Greg I'm still me and I don't change this is me. My thoughts and opinions naturally change and evolve over time but my core values never will take it or leave it. I'm ok with it either way.
Cheers!
I Love You, Baby Fultz, wherever you are!
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